The Secret of Secrets

recently, i was unable to visit my dear friend's blog, hikmah, the lady of the land of jenjarom (heheh.. jgn marah ye). i thought it was a problem with the server or something. rupa2nya she deleted the blog and moved it to another url. too many comments yang tak membina, she says.

saya dulu pun pernah sekali dapat komen yang berbau harum seperti itu. i don't remember the exact words but the writer (who, of courselah berselindung di bawah title anonymous. tak mungkin dia akan letak nama dia sebenar berserta dengan ID fb dia kan) critisized me for trying "to show off how islamic and how a muslimah sejati i am" but in the same time having a picture of a woman showing off her bare legs in the air (referring to an older skin of this blog). saya, muslimah sejati? hahaha.. totally absurd. well, i haven't deleted the comment. not because saya sokong apa yang dia tulis, but i think that everyone has the right to have an opinion (the same as i have the rights to write anything in my blog, dear ms anonymous). and i didn't reply or responded because i didn't know who the writer was. sedap bahasakan orang bila tahu serba sedikit pasal org tahu. baru sedap tembak kan.

after that incident, loh kong suggest suruh saya lock kan blog nie, give permission only to ppl that i know. of course saya tanak. why would i. my blog is not the source of their problem. locking it would not change anything. lagipun, i love getting those comments. it makes me laugh.

anyway, coming back to hikmah's blog. i still remember one comment sampah she received in the old blog. kalau tak silap, the entry was about how a handful of kakak2 kat office dia was controlling the husband's finances - up to the point of keeping the credit cards and atms. so, the commenter (again, under anonymous status) pointed out something like "awak tak de hak nak tulis pasal orang. awak pun belum tentu sempurna".. ohh the usual ayat of someone yang konon bagus2, u know what i mean..

i know there are others yang dapat jugak comment2 tak sedap didengar nie. sometimes tibe2 je komen2 nie muncul, bukannya mcm entry tu mengutuk sape2 pun. ishh.. entah2 i will get one after publishing this entry kan ... aiyokk, tak tahu. takutnyaaaaa~~

the thing that i don't get is, betapa mendalamnya keinginan dan betapa "rajinnya" si anonymous utk menulis komen2 "best" mereka. padahal, kalau tak suke, bukankah lebih senang to click the x button than lifting your fingers to type such comments?

orrr not? ohh i don't know. really.

*title tak ada kaitan. just love how it sounds. ehehe.. iye, nak kutuk, kutuklah, ms anonymous. lalaaallaa..